It is hard isn’t it?
We are all so connected and I have so many friends, so many whatsapp conversations but everyone has their own lives and things going on and it’s a lot. At the base level this kind of social interaction feels ok, but then when you have a real few hours with someone – like you really have their time and you can be chatting putting the world to rights but you can also be quiet together and that’s amazing. I guess some people have that all day every day with their partners and thats awesome. But yeah, then they leave and go back to their lives and then there is massive hole in me and I just cry and it’s a bit over the top lol.
I dunno if its the ADHD; I mean it really does make me feel things more strongly – especially goodbyes, my god, I just can’t cope and I am sure my sadness I am feeling now my friend has gone back to her house is not the the ‘normal’ level of feelings to have. Why am I so sad, I can’t put my finger on it. We have been watched Love is Blind so maybe that got me remembering about love and past relationships…but honestly I dunno.
It’s just nice having someone around in my flat and I guess living alone I am alone a lot. But, yeah, having a lodger again is too much of a risk – I can’t cope with that either!
It’s all just a lot and I get really annoyed with myself when I am like this because I have no idea what I want or what I feel like I am truly missing. Or maybe I do not what I am missing but I also know it’s not all its cracked up to be.
I think I just get sad for the ‘romantic Sadie’ who believed she had found her person and it was all going to work out. Maybe it will all work out, but not knowing what my life will look like even in just a few months is scary. I guess at least I am strong and all that and no one knows what will happen in the future but I guess my future is all on me to work out and I just don’t know what I want. Only what I don’t want lol.
And, my gosh, it’s hard being strong all the time and resolute and trusting in my life choices. I just don’t know how to feel something for someone if I am not feeling it, I am not going to get into a relationship just for the sake of it.
But every now and then it is really lonely.